my final grade for anatomy and physiology lab just went up. it was my toughest course this semester and i got a b. now we just need to see what i got in lecture so i can combine the two and see what the final grade is. i hate that lab and lecture is a combined grade but this is a happy girl. so happy.
I am so unbelievably sick of people saying things like “So what if so and so died? It’s not like soldiers don’t die every day without recognition.” Many of my family members have served and I am more than grateful for what our soldiers do for us. I understand that there it nothing more brave or noble than serving. I fully understand that. But, why is it that soldiers are the only ones we can speakof when they die? Why are soldiers the only ones that deserve recognition? Chances are you don’t know those soldiers that die every day any more than you know a celebrity that has died. People are allowed to talk about someone they admire passing regardless of who they are or whether or not they serve in the armed forces. Everyone has a different definition of a hero. Just because your definition of hero is soldier, doesn’t mean that you should shame others for them having different definitions of hero. Why is one life more important than others based on one circumstance?
Everyone is different though, it’d be a pretty boring place if we were all the same. And still, I can understand why she’s getting upset, I’d be upset if I was her. And okay, she’s upset because he’s not with her, she has every right to be upset tbh
they have lived together for an excess of 8 months and see each other every day. she wakes up in the same bed as him every morning. i will never understand why it’s a travesty for me to talk to him a couple hours out of the day. regardless of what time it is. it’s not like i’m calling him or asking him to hang out.
It’s not a big deal, but to her it is. You were his girlfriend before her. Honestly I can fully relate to how she must be feeling, it doesn’t have to be flirty. Just the fact that he’s wanting to spend his nights talking to you and not her
i was never jealous or insecure about things while i was with him so maybe i just don’t understand it. i knew better than to think he would ever be unfaithful or lie to me. i know he was talking to her back when we were dating because they were friends. i never got upset that they were talking late at night. i never minded that he was on his phone doing things because he let me do the same thing. spending time with him was enough for me. i didn’t need his attention at every moment. besides, her issue is because she’s waking up and seeing him online. even if i wasn’t talking to him, he’d still be awake.
Ah, he’s your ex? I can understand why she’s feeling that then.
i just don’t see why it’s a big deal. it’s the same conversation no matter when he replies. it’s not like she can control the fact that he is or isn’t sleeping and what he decides to do with that time. it’s literally him and i just bullshitting about stupid stuff. it’s not like it’s flirty or anything.
it’s not like i’m trying to make a move on him or swoop in to steal him away. would i love a second chance with him if he were single? yes. am i going to take him from her? no. i’ve never connected with another person the way i do with him. i won’t let her come between it.
Whut? She should be angry with her boyfriend and no messaging you it was he who started.
RIGHT!? like it’s somehow magically my fault he was up at 3am and started messaging me. apparently i just wasn’t supposed to reply to it. i’m going to fucking answer my messages if i’m up to see them. it’s not like i woke him up and forced him to talk to me. he doesn’t even have a phone. i can’t get him up. he has to be on a computer to fb message me. so i can’t control that he got his ass out of bed to get online.
her fucking boyfriend started messaging me super late and this bitch has the nerve to message me this. i’m ‘stepping on toes’.
“would you like it if every time you woke up through the night your boyfriend was facebooking some girl at whatever hours of the night . for the first 8 months we were dating yoy guys never talked. now its so important. i honmestly dont care if you talk to him. but learn to talk to him at normal hours. 3am? seriously?”